How To Deal With Contrary Circumstances?

315 views | 15 Dec 2009

Q : Gurudev I am 30 yrs old. I am married and I have a 2 yrs old son. I always try to make all people happy around me. Gurudev, I always try to make my parents and my wife happy and give all facilities to them as many as I can. However, I end up facing them fighting each other for small-small reasons. In that situation, I loose my patience. I am diabetic and anger is not at all good for me. Gurudev, could you please guide me what to do in these circumstances? Gurumaa Answer: People have small minds & small hearts and small minds are filled with greed, selfish egos, jealousies, prejudices so what would they do? They can only fight, they can only create commotion & confusions & fightings. And if you are concerned about your health & your wellbeing, then you have to learn to watch all this tamasha (drama) happening in front of you as if you are watching a movie, so the characters in the movie are fighting, running, romancing, kicking, punching and what you do, you pay money, you buy a ticket, you sit on the seat and watch this whole drama, so here you are Suresh sitting in your drying room, no ticket to be bought, and see this free show and just be a witness for that.

show more

Related Videos

Faith & Wisdom to Deal with Loss (with English sub)

व्यवहार में सावधान कैसे रहें?

Living Awarefully (English)

How to deal with negative people? (with English subtitles)

How to Deal With Attachment?

How to Deal With Negative Thoughts?

Can I study Christianity and Vipassana at the same time and benefit from both?

How to catch the gap between two words?

On the verge of losing a loved one! What must a Saadhak do?

Be a master, not a slave!

आनन्दमूर्ति गुरुमाँ द्वारा गीता विद्या मंदिर बड़ा गांव का नवीनीकरण

Dawn and Dusk: Special Opportunities for Seekers (English)

Dealing with Memories from the Past (with English subtitles)

Why cant we have same pure feeling for the whole society as we have for our mother or sister?

क्या केवल समाधि से है मुक्ति संभव?

Hridaya Samvaada: 14 June 2020

How to deal with insults? (English)

How can I rise above this secret dependency?

How to Deal With Your Past?

How to cope up with odd behavior of my paralyzed son?

Who is a Sanyasi (English)

किस पे करें श्रद्धा ?

How to deal with life's challenges?

Fakiron Ki Duniya

जीव स्वयं ही अपना मित्र व शत्रु कैसे? Shrimad Bhagavad Gita

How to do Yoga Nidra properly?

How to prepare for Yoga Bandhas?

How to Decide with Clarity?

How to be free from boredom & restless-ness?

How Yoga Nidra helps students?

Latest Videos

Related Videos