Q : It is said not to have raag or dwesh, but it is not practical. You tend to swing one way, why is it path association?
Lavina
Answer Yes, it is path association. Moreover, you don't know how to be happy with yourself. You don't know how to be centred yourself. Thus you are always dependent on the people, you are always dependent upon situations and you are always hungry for joy. You are allergic to pain and suffering, yet you have to face pain and suffering. You want to be with good people, yet you have to meet bad people. Well, you term them bad. Every bad person is good to someone and every good person is bad to someone. It is just your perception. Nothing is good, nothing is bad. Every bad person has good angle and good person has bad angle but we don't accept people as a total package. We are always bisecting them and then we want people to adjust to our needs and expectation. There raag and dwesh, the attachment and hatred, is formed. So as long as you are enjoying this whole game of hatred and attraction, well enjoy your ride but the day you get really exhausted with this, that would be the time, when you need to settle down mind and you have to look beyond your mind.
Gurumaa
